Yes Is The Right Answer To Your Wife’s Horse
After a spell of assiduous courting, a man feels that he knows a girl enough to ask her to marry him and spend the remainder of her life with him. She accepts, and as time goes by each finds that the other is not really everything that that he or she seemed to be before getting married, but that’s okay if the partners are reasonably accommodating.
But what if you are bored by all animals and to horses in particular, and your other half is a closet pony lover? What if one day she springs a unpleasant surprise on you: she wants a horse? Are you able to take that surprise in your stride? And if you can, what are you actually going to do about it? Will you accede, or will you veto?
In fact you are lost. You aren’t quite sure about what you should do. You have got the fear that spending on a horse will impact your snug way of life negatively. You need to stop, take a deep breath and have another think. It needs a real smart man to realize that allowing his wife to purchase the pony she is itching for will get him gigantic brownie points. Put aside your fear that a horse could eat you out of hearth and home, without mentioning all the upkeep and maintenance. You are also fairly sure that after a while, your wife is going to be after you to get another pony, so you can learn to ride too. That way, both of you can take romantic rides together. The thought has you sweating! More cost!
– Prior to doing something that you will regret later on here is a suggestion: you can let your better half have her way and have almost all of your fears turn out to be unwarranted. Just think about this: if your other half files for divorce because you refused her a pony, the expenses of support may be far, far worse than the costs of rearing a pony.
– From the other perspective, by acceding to her request, you can gain some advantage. What about some quid pro quo? You might remind her that for the last couple of years she has been preventing you from buying that 72′ Plasma TV you’ve been yearning for, as it is expensive, and now she wants a horse! Before you know, you will be watching videos of your better half riding on a 72′ Plasma Television!
– If you sort of ration it out, you can keep squeezing for some considerable time. You can keep squeezing as long as your other half keeps riding, because her horse will be a continual cost item. There will be no end of feeding and veterinary visits and grooming and stabling if you put up your wife’s horse at a boarding stable. All this adds up to the undeniable fact that for the first time since you got married, you and your better half are on level playing grounds.
– So think seriously before you refuse your wife her horse.
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